The Story Behind Stay Alive Candle Co.

The Story Behind Stay Alive Candle Co.

Some stories begin with pain but grow into purpose. 

Here is mine 

Why I started Stay Alive Candle Co. 

Stay Alive Candle Co. was created in honor of my mom and dad, who both lost their lives to suicide. 

In 2006 my dad Kenneth Ray Anderson lost his life to suicide, I was 11. July of 2025, I lost my mom to suicide. At the age of 30 my life changed when I found my mom after she lost her life. Losing both of my parents is something words can never fully explain. There are moments when grief is heavy, quiet, confusing, and impossible to carry. But through the pain, one thing remained in my heart: 

Their story could not end in silence. 

I knew I wanted to create something meaningful. Something that could remind people they matter. Something that could bring comfort into dark moments. That's why Stay Alive Candle Co. was born. 

These candles are more than "smell good" products. 

They are reminders. 

Reminders to Breathe 

To Keep Going 

To choose One More Day 

To Stay Alive 

Every Scent Has Meaning 

Each candle was created with emotion, love and healing in mind. 

Cherry Love

A sweet, comforting scent that represents love that never leaves up.

Vanilla Dream 

Soft and calming - like peace after a hard day. 

Starberry Cream 

Warm, happy, and nostalgic. A reminder that healing can still hold sweetness.

Sweet Pineapple 

Bright and uplifting, created to bring light into heavy moments. 

Even the names behind the candles reflect messages I wish more people could hear: 

  • Keep Going 
  • Breathe 
  • One More Day 
  • Still Here 

Because sometimes those simple words save lives.

Mental Health Matters 

Mental health struggles do not always look obvious. 

Sometimes people smile while silently hurting. Sometimes the strongest people are fighting battles nobody sees. I know how important it is to talk about suicide awareness, grief, depression, anxiety, and hope openly, without shame. 

That is why this business means so much to me. 

If even one person lights one of my candles and feels comfort...

If one person feels seen... 

If one person decides to stay another day...

Then this mission matters. 

More than a Candle Company 

My dream is for Stay Alive Candle Co. to become something bigger than candles. 

I want it to become a community centered around healing, hope and mental health awareness. A place where people feel safe, understood, and reminded they are not alone. 

This business is built from heartbreak, but it is also built from Love. 

And I truly believe my parents' legacy is not just their loss - it is the hope their story can inspire in others through me. 

A Message to Anyone Struggling 

If you are hurting right now, please stay. 

One more day. 

One more hour.

One more moment. 

You Matter More Than You Know. 

And no matter how dark life feels today, there is still light ahead. 

Thank you for supporting my small business, my story, and this mission. Every order means more than you could imagine. 

With Love, 

Kaylee 

Founder of Stay Alive Candle Co. 

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